Natalyn Lewis

Where do I want it to go?

And how do I want to lead it?

And at the end of the day, if somebody were talking back and saying, this is, this was what Ryan was really like, what do I want that person saying?

How do I want to represent myself?

And if my children heard that, would they be proud?

If my spouse heard that, would they be proud?

Do I have my physical health and well-being?

Do I have a spiritual connection to some higher power than me?

And do I live my life with purpose?

If you can't answer those questions yet, do some soul searching and figure that out.

Because if you haven't defined how you're showing up as a leader, I promise you, you are operating on somebody else's definition, which means right now you are operating unintentionally.

Sorry.

Yeah.

Well, it's not, it's because it's not, it's because it's not, it is a narrative that's not told enough.

And that's because it's not, we're not trying at this onset of our businesses to create our own narrative.

If you were to say to this guy, my client who was grinding, which I did say to him, I said, so let's paint me a picture of what you want your life ultimately to look like.

And I said, now, are the decisions you're making today in the way you're running your business getting you there?

There's a complete disconnect.

But because he's not starting the day every day with a reminder of vision, and because he's not understanding intentionally who he is as a man that is leading to that vision, there is a complete disconnect.

And then we get into reactive and comparison mode.