Nicole Jaques

We're talking porn and, you know, we were worried about getting kidnapped in the front yard.

I'm worried about a lot worse popping up on my kid's screen.

So I'm going to say something and I'm going to,

It may be a little controversial, but I do think that this is the right way to handle a phone.

Because it's Pandora's box.

We're going to have to teach them how to use it correctly, right?

So screens are exciting.

Brains need breaks.

We protect our focus like we protect our sleep, right?

Just simple things that are kind of part of your systems already, and your kids are going to hear that.

Because you're going to frame it as brain care, not control, okay?

And I think if we talk about why an age appropriate, to be honest, I'm not really sure that it's appropriate for me a lot of the time.

And I'm 38 and I've, you know, we did all the things.

I'm just saying, you know, there are times I'm like, oh my gosh, there, yes, I use social media to connect and make friends and go on vacation with them.

And I trust them, yes, almost more than sometimes people in my community.

But I will tell you that there are some days I'm in my bathroom crying over someone I've never met who won't be at my funeral or my daughter's wedding or any of that over something she said.

And I've had to put in production for myself, right?

Yeah.

There are things men write to me that should never be heard.

So I see it, right?