Nicole Jaques

Right?

And you don't need perfection either.

I'm not preaching perfection.

I am anti-perfection, if anything.

But phones don't steal connection.

Lack of boundary does, right?

Yes.

And that's something I think our generation has had to learn how to manage, to be frank.

So now we're dealing with it in a technology age as well.

And there is something to be said for understanding healthy boundaries and inserting them with love and respect.

But it's the same here.

And simple things just to implement right away if you're struggling with this at home is a family phone agreement.

a little one pager, kids friendly screen schedule.

So they kind of get and understand how to utilize it.

That's giving them a system, a one minute, you know, phone connection spiel on the way home from school or a partner alignment agreement.

Sometimes

You guys, you know, both agreeing on how to script it to your kids about phones and then hearing it from mom and dad or dad and dad or mom and mom.

Hearing it from a set of, you know, parental figures is very impactful for a kid.

So if you guys are saying the same words about it, they're hearing it from all sides and it becomes core.

And I think it doesn't have to be this whole system and 20 minutes of this or an hour of that or I have to overthink this.