Niko Emanuilidis
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147 appearances
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first heard Jan 2025
last heard Jan 2025
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But ultimately, our purpose here is to serve other people. And through doing that, that's how you get true happiness. I'm sure, you know, you probably talk about this a lot. And I just started doing that. And it's true. You know, it's just the success follows. And it's been great.
That's a really good question as well. You're great with these questions. I love it.
You know, I think first things first, you need to look at your natural God-given skill set, right? Like I was telling you earlier, I always knew I was a great communicator, charismatic. I'm good at inspiring and helping people. Like I just always knew that about myself. And I always knew that I have really good morals and really good intentions.
So that was something that I've always known about myself, my ability to communicate effectively and help people. I also, years in the past, I was a basketball coach. So I was always used to like, and girls basketball, funny enough. So I was always talking and inspiring groups of people.
So I always knew deep down that this is something that's meant for me, which is why like it's sort of just very naturally translated to a topic that I was really passionate about. And I think there's so many people out there on the internet. You might think that, oh my god, there's so many different people doing the same thing as me. How could I stand out? You stand out by being you.
If you try to be somebody else, you're going to be just like somebody else. You have to do it your way. Like Sinatra says, I got the mic. I might as well just sing it. You got to do it your way. And be authentic to who you are. Know your skill sets. Know what you're passionate about. And if you follow that and you implement the hard work as far as, you know, you got to post every single day.
You want to start a business. You want to be famous. You got to post every single day. And, you know, there's going to be days you don't want to do it. You got to do it anyway because you know why? It's not going to happen if you don't do it. No one is going to come pick you up and say, oh, my God, you're the next – I'm going to give you a million dollars. You're the next famous superstar.
It's like, no, you have to put in the work even on days when you don't want to. And trust me, there are days where I'm like maybe I'm not feeling 100%. I'm a little down or whatnot. And I'm like, you know what? I still got to do what I got to do today. It's all about – you got to take care of yourself as well.
If you're feeling burned out, you got to put that energy back into yourself because you can't help people if you're not feeling – you know, 100%. But more or less, it's just like anything, like it's not going to happen unless you put the effort in to make it happen. And, you know, the world's huge, there's a lot of people out there. So there's space for everyone to be successful and make money.
Exactly. Because I mean, we all have our egos, we all have our goals. And once you start making about me, me, me, you kind of just start to overthink. I'm reading all these different books about thinking the power of now overthinking all these different things. I'm like, you have to present moment, just like you said. you're helping one person.
If you're talking to the camera, you're helping that one person. If you're on a coaching call, you're helping that one person. And taking that emphasis off of me, me, me, put it on them. What could I do for this one person? How can I spread positivity, love, good energy?
And when you focus on that, yeah, once you get started, the hardest part is literally, let's say you have to film a video, is the getting up, putting the camera up, and starting it. Because once you get rolling, if this, like you said, is what you're meant to be doing, it just starts to flow naturally. And then you get into the state where you're like, Oh, okay. Like I'm kind of in it now.
And then it just flows. But I agree with you. You're totally right.
See, it's so funny because every person's situation is so nuanced and different and yet it's really all the same at the same time. I think one of the biggest problems that I talk about a lot because we don't care about someone we went on a date with and it was like, okay, that's not who we care about. We care about making it work with the one person that we meet and there's the spark, right?
Because when you meet somebody and you feel that spark – What tends to happen is you want to see this person, you want to see this person, you want to talk to this person. And I think where a lot of people sort of mess up is they go too hot and heavy too quick. I make a lot of videos about this.
A fast-paced relationship, from what I mean like you're texting all day long, you're talking on the phone, you're seeing him Wednesday, Saturday, Tuesday. It's just off the bat, the intensity is all the way at the top. That pace only benefits men because a man can get so much out of a relationship.
If that's the speed in two weeks to a month, then a woman can, because odds are you're building that super strong connection. You're going to be more likely to be intimate. You He's playing house essentially. He's playing girlfriend for the month. He'll take you on a trip maybe. He'll take you here, take you there because men love spending their money doing cool things with beautiful women.
Why wouldn't they? That's the point of making money and do it. Men want to spend it on beautiful women. So they'll push the pace. I would say like he gets the hooks in and then after a month, after he's kind of gotten bored, he's like, all right, well, kind of on to the next one now. And that happens a lot.
And a lot of people will say to me, well, Nico, like, no, if I feel like it's meant for me, like, why do I have to play games? It's not playing games. It's moving a little bit slower and protecting yourself. The right man for you won't mind moving a little bit slower because I always say healthy masculine men are okay with delayed gratification, right?
Men who want something out of you want it now, want it now, fast, fast, fast. So if a man is willing to pursue you, one date – I would say like one date per week for the first month. And then after that point, you could pick it up to twice a week. And then the communication, it should always be a positive upwards trajectory.
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