Oakley Robbins

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The Mel Robbins Podcast · Create a Happier Version of Yourself: Redirect Your Energy for Positive Thinking · 2 Jul 2026 podcast

And so for the first year of college, I was able to kind of like commute home and see her on weekends, which made it easy for the relationship, but it obviously didn't make it easy for the place that I was in.

Because, you know, my mind, I thought about her 24 seven.

She, she's amazing.

And she, I, I always just had my mind on her and I couldn't, I just wished more than anything that we could be in the same place together.

And I spent so much time just wanting to either go home or wanting her to come up to me and, um,

Yeah, on a Friday or a Saturday, you know, like going late into my dorm and just kind of locking myself away from all my friends just so I could have a conversation with her.

And it was in the moment, you know, I...

I would, I would tell myself that this is what I need to be doing.

Like, this is the best thing in my life and I want to maintain that.

And arguably it was.

So it made sense that I could just kind of keep that up and maintain the one good thing that I still had going for me.

But because of that, it really, without me knowing, of course, it caused me to shut out, shut out everything around me and everyone around me because on those nights where I

All my friends would go out to party and all those things.

I had an outlet where I could stay in my dorm and I could call my girlfriend because it allowed me to kind of have this excuse where it's like, oh, well, I don't need to because I need to call my girlfriend and maintain this connection.

Yeah.

For me or for you?

Yeah, the relationship, while amazing, definitely hurt me and stopped me from appreciating the place that I was currently in.

And because I was able to keep going back to that outlet, I never truly had to work to get out there to go do these things.

It's true.

What changed is at the start of second semester.

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