Oakley Robbins

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365 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jul 2026 last heard 2 Jul

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The Mel Robbins Podcast · Create a Happier Version of Yourself: Redirect Your Energy for Positive Thinking · 2 Jul 2026 podcast

I was not amazing in the relationship.

I was so unhappy in the place that I was that on those weekends when I would show up on a phone call or I would see her in person, I was miserable.

And I was not fun to be around.

And I was just not a good person to be in a relationship with to begin with.

I think it's really important to say that also while I was in the relationship, I was a firm believer that I could make...

things work you know I was I believe that everybody says like oh long distance isn't always the best and it's important to be where you are and I was a firm stubborn believer that I could be the 1% like I'm different you know like I can rise above and I can be in this relationship and I can love this place that I'm in and I gave that the shot and it really didn't work out and so I knew deep down that

Like I had to switch it up and I had to change something and try this new thing.

Making those decisions to change the way I've been living kind of inspired me in a sense to actually like get myself out the door.

What do you mean?

Because I was like, I just broke up with my girlfriend and I am like trying to have this new mindset.

And so it would be a disservice to me and everyone else to just continue living the same way I have been.

if I were to have just like broken up with her and like trying to go into school with a new mindset and then continue to just sit in my dorm every day, like it would do nothing for me.

And so I was like, I owe it to me and them to keep going and to try these new things.

Here we go.

I think one thing looking back that I learned is that I'm capable of living through the discomfort of being upset.

And I'm capable of doing something about it or not.

I was able to live through this sadness and loneliness for a year and a half and do nothing about it.

It really scares me because I wonder how many people are currently doing that.

But I also...

I think I could have done it longer as well, which also scares me.

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