Olivia Wilde

It's crippling.

It's so hard.

And the only thing that heals it is talking about it and sharing all things with shame.

Once you air it out, then it dissipates.

Shame dies once you share.

But it's hard.

It's hard.

I think it's one of the reasons that more women don't direct films is because...

the feeling of saying like i have to go i'm gonna miss soccer practice i'm gonna miss this adorable christmas pageant because i'm gonna be on set and i'm not even like speaking truth to power as a journalist like my mom like she was like making the world better i'm just like telling funny stories on film and sometimes you're like oh man i i it is it's really hard to to get over that judgment but there's a lot of other moms going through it without a doubt yeah and

God, I think just by example and just by kind of not really –

entertaining insecurity.

It was like, seen as like, yeah, but you'll get through it.

It doesn't matter.

Push through that.

You'll do it.

You want to do it, then you'll do it.

And I think that she was always just encouraging a sense of

real faith in me that made me have a real sense of faith in myself, which is very valuable.

I think, yeah, I think she just seemed to demonstrate... Maybe it was by demonstrating that the...

The bullshit was inevitable.