Pastor Cal

You know, she, she, she sees, um, she sees a different side of things and, and it's always, it's just always good because, uh, people that were couples that we're talking to, they love it because it's not just a guy's point of view or just, you know, it's, it's, it's our point of view.

And so when she brings her, um,

her very straightforward opinions and understanding of relationships and of marriage.

It's actually quite awesome.

So I'm really happy and blessed to have her as my co-conspirator in this thing.

you know what, like I said, you know, we've been, this wasn't our first rodeo.

So I was like, you know, she rejected me.

She probably didn't say this, but she rejected me first, okay?

I stepped to her, you know, and I'm like, look, a mutual friend introduced us and I stepped to her and I was like, okay, okay, okay, this is good.

And so I didn't get her number at that time, but I contacted the friend and got her number later.

Well, you know, we were talking and she said, well, look, I just want to be friends.

You know, I mean, she'd only been divorced a couple of years and I'd been about eight or about nine years.

But she said, we, you know, we could just be friends.

And I said, friends?

I'm not, don't use the F word.

I'm not looking for a friend.

And so she said, well, look, that's all I have.

And I told her this, and this is, I'm not making this up.

I said, you know what your problem is?

She reminds me now, that's the wrong thing to say when you get to know somebody.