Paul Eastwick
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1,562 appearances
7 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 24 May
Paul Eastwick’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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It's pretty nasty.
And importantly, it's really not backed by the evidence when it comes to attraction, relationship formation, any of that.
People actually don't pay attention at all to things like, oh, what is your mate value relative to mine?
Yes, attractive people will be more appealing, but people aren't doing this trade up thing as they get to know people over time.
You are describing the dating app that we all need, but we don't deserve.
We get to hang out in groups with people over time.
Now, these things exist.
They're not called apps.
They're called like intramural sports leagues.
Exactly.
That doesn't sound terrible.
Now, we can't do that for everybody.
But there are other contexts out there.
I honestly think like improv classes are probably another one.
Yeah, that is outstanding advice.
Oh, gosh, it's sad.
Yeah.
Okay.
I love these ideas.
And I think another thing that's important to realize about like when we're using the apps and we're swiping and things is that even if we're not just filtering on the universally desirable stuff, if we're like, okay, like I really want to date people who are in, I don't know, certain industries or something like that.
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