Paul Eastwick
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1,562 appearances
7 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 24 May
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And so it's handy that we see this democratizing process as people get to know each other over time.
What that means is that if you spend enough time in the right context, it's going to work out for many of us.
And I worry that this is the simple bit of logic that we've forgotten a little bit.
Yeah.
And look, I want to encourage people to not be terrible.
Yes.
And to be kind.
But even a lot of the terrible, unkind people get partners too.
I worked at a law firm, so I know.
Here's the real kicker is that those terrible unkind people get in relationships and their partners genuinely think that they are great and that they are kind.
Again, it can be a little bit mystical because you think like, how does she see good qualities in him?
I really don't get it.
But again, it's part of this process that makes relationships work for many of us where we don't feel like we're always striving to get something better.
Yeah, so it's a concept that gets applied to women, and the suggestion is that they're always looking to trade up, especially relative to their own value.
So I'm a woman.
I look at myself.
Okay, I'm a six, so I got to try to land a seven.
And if I can land a seven, then maybe, I don't know, I can leverage that to get an eight.
I'm not doing my best to channel this perspective.
But this is how some men online think about women.
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