Pip Rasmussen

She didn't say it back.

And then it kind of just like popped out in the public, in the wild.

And we asked her whether or not it like bothered her partner, the fact that she didn't say it back immediately.

And this is what she sent us.

What Jess was saying kind of reminded me of like when people have had kind of bad relationships in the past and they might not be that willing to part with the words I love you straight away.

And this is something that Luca told us.

It is.

It's so, so important.

Like Jess and Luke are like great examples of that where you just don't leave the other person in the dark knowing like not knowing why or when it might happen or if it will happen.

It's like just say maybe this is why, you know.

Also.

So Ruby messaged us saying...

Do you relate to this?

yeah i really feel like i've taken that for granted with my family it's very like natural for us to say it yeah although i always it's taken me years to get my grandma to say it back to me and i'm like that's a generational thing like i know she loves me but she like never says i love you grandma and i always say when we have like a phone call i'll be like at the end i'll be like i love you grandma and she'll be like oh you're terrific darling have a great and i'm like say it back

Sorry for grandma.

She has said it once or twice.

And I was like, damn, she really, I am the favorite.

I'm the favorite grandchild.

Cause I don't think she says to anyone else, but it's a generational thing.

But yeah, there are a lot of different like cultural differences and like reasons why people might not express like the words.