Rachel Scanlon
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first heard Dec 2024
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I think there's something fun too about like when you're exploring your masculinity and you look at the way that gay men are doing. Like I look at my fashion and I think it's fruitier than masculine lately. Like I was dressing more butch and then I hit the peak butchness and then I was like, wait, I want fruity. I want patterns. I want mesh. I want velvet. I've been doing crushed velvet.
Yes. And it's fun. I love it. Jock straps showing on top of my low rise. I'm talking things that if men were wearing, they'd be like, that is a feminine man. But on my... lesbian body it is like a weird fruity butch which I feel like fruity butch is what you were describing when you're like try this and I'm like fruity butchness has found like a lot of freedom where you're like okay yeah I have
some curves. I have some places of my body that are not as butch as my clothes are. But when you're leaning into a fruity butchness, then I feel less like I'm having gender dysphoria and more like I'm having fun with my fashion.
Yeah.
Right. Whenever you can feel like, also I think that's, I think lesbians too get away with being way more comfortable than I think straight women a lot of times are.
When I was young, I wore boxers because all of my friends were wearing boxers. All my friends were boys. A girl, one of my sister's friends who was a volleyball player was like, that's for boys. Girls wear underpants. And I went, got it. And then I wore underpants. Underpants? Or whatever. Underwear. You know how women, girls are wearing underwear and boys are supposed to wear boxers.
I heard that. I was like, okay, got it. I'm like panicked because I can already tell that I am not fit. fitting in with the other girls. I'm already, like, I'm doing it wrong. I'm doing girlhood wrong. They're clocking you. You're saying, I don't like what's happening. Yeah. Society is already going, you're not doing girl right, okay? I heard that. I corrected it. I said, got it.
I put on underwear and then boxers on top of that to be, like, heard. Still not getting it right. You know what I mean? It's interesting when, like, I think also, like, lesbian fashion is doing this fun thing where
There's like masculine people or me, I guess me and some other like there's some other mask trans people that I know that are like dressing for the era that they were forced to be like a pretty little girl. So I'm seeing like middle school. Yeah.
And I see it sometimes in my own shit where I'm like, oh, that is what I wished I could have worn throughout, you know, middle school and high school where I was like wearing dresses to prom, like going back and being like, oh, my formal wear is now men's clothing or whatever.
my like graphic tees are from when i would have been in you know that era the puka shell necklace very like early 2000s teenager heartthrob but i am one tree hill yes it is giving exactly hill but this kind of brings me to this question for you which i do wonder as somebody who i am a quickly aging dyke i am getting older and i have no idea what that looks like for my fashion at all and
And, like, I think it's, once again, you've kind of touched on, like, we are queer. We do make our own rules. We get to do whatever we want. But I do wonder, like, how do I take my clothing into, like, my 40s as, like, a masculine... Like, I have no idea how to age my clothing up. And I do feel like I'm giving... So you don't want to stay in this?
I mean, I do, but I want to look like, yeah, like, I mean, not that this, I think I would still be a flashy 40 year old, but like, I don't want to look like a forever. I don't want to look like a 40 year old who is trying to dress like a kid. You know what I mean? And I have no idea what that looks like.
Yeah. You know, I have a 401k. I've lived long enough to put money into a 401k. Is it $500? Yes. Yeah. I have a driver's license. I have a wife.
I could, I could, you could read the whole time guys.
I don't want people to think that like in my bag, I have a yo-yo.
I do want it.
I have thought something before. It does say yo-yo though.
Yeah, like you're, I never thought about what fabrics could kind of portray in like the stage of your life that you're in. But that's one of those powerful things about clothes. Like there are, there's messages that you're sending every day.
You know, and that's like powerful. Screaming at my journal saying, maybe I'll get a yo-yo today. That's fucking funny.
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