Radha Agrawal

And this map will begin to, and what I like to do is color code it, so work, friends,

I'll color code in green, right?

And family, I'll color code in red.

And friends that I choose, I'll color code in orange, right?

So different colors, just to sort of see, ah, okay, cool.

So, you know, and then I have this kind of axis of energy that I created in my book, in chapter one, or in part one of the book, where you sort of

assess, okay, who are the community members who are bringing me up and who are the community members in my life who are bringing me down?

So looking around, you begin to see, ah, cool.

So all the green quadrant sort of is up and to the right.

So therefore, I realize that my work life is very positive.

I have very positive community at work.

But then maybe there's more red dots around family and friends in the negative quadrants.

So you're like, ah, okay, I need to really understand and assess what's happening in my family life so I can really heal that or support that or ask myself, you know, how do I connect and handle family members?

And we've all, you know, we all, we've all, we're all, we all go through that.

And so, so really looking at this.

Yeah.

Well, you know, we all... Your dad's Indian, your mom's Japanese.

Your sister's a doctor and your sister's, you know... Well, you know, and culturally it's interesting, right?

Like, you know, my father, my mother are some of the most loving community builders.

I know, in fact, they modeled what community looks like for us.