Randy Kessler

A few of them have not gotten... One in particular that I recall, they took a break and then a year later they came back and got married.

He got used to the idea.

Well, I'm going to push back.

I mean, do we really expect complete transparency?

I mean, think about this.

How many spouses do you know that would be totally 100% comfortable handing their phone to their spouse and saying, go ahead, scroll through my texts, my posts, my DMs?

You'd like to think that everybody is fine with it.

I agree.

But isn't there a time when sometimes maybe your best friend texts you something and says, is your husband really that good in bed and you want to write back girl talk?

Right.

It's a degree.

Everything's a matter of degree.

But certainly there's some things you want to keep private.

You want to write in your diary.

You want to go to a therapist where you can talk freely that you had a dream about killing your spouse, but you don't want your spouse to know that you've had that dream.

You're trying to figure out why you had that dream because you love him.

There are secrets that people keep from each other.

And I think there's things that people should keep from each other.

Yeah, well, that's true.

Maybe I'm a little bit jaded, right?