Robyn Malcolm

We'd talk about, but the minute you got into that territory, you know, people just didn't want to share.

But the minute I did,

suddenly it's out there, you know, and women really want... I mean, I think that's what's so wonderful about us and why I feel so lucky that women are who we are because...

It's much, much easier for us to share.

Than for men.

And I really feel that with men is just this... And I don't think it's biological.

It's just learned behaviour.

That the fear around being vulnerable, the fear around I don't know what I'm doing or I don't know what's going on or I'm feeling... You know, it's...

I think it's much scarier for them because there isn't that wraparound that women automatically have for each other.

You know, the minute you see a friend going, oh, I'm not coping, everybody else goes, neither am I. Let's have a huddle.

Group hug.

It's like all those penguins in the middle of winter in the deep south.

Men don't do it.

We don't do it.

And they go through the same stuff.

Yeah, they do.

And, you know, we did one of the other bits in the doco.

Again, I'm not giving away any.

We worked with a woman who's, she's a sex therapist, but she works with a lot of menopausal and post-menopausal women and about how,

if you're into it, how to approach it differently or how to back right off and sort of come around the side and look at your sex life in a different way or whatever.