Ryder Strong

And I'm, you know, just loving that everything's kind of connected back to the one thing that feels aligned for me and feels purpose driven and feels like I'm making a difference in people's lives, maybe one by two or one by one or whatever it is, but like, it feels more, more important.

in the regard of like go get your own create your own opportunities you know do you think did you guys feel that because i've talked about that before i felt like i had a 10-year bubble of my life of like my personal development my like choosing what i wanted to do in life gone i feel like i'm 10 years behind uh people that went the normal route and went to college and like right themselves out

It is like you here, you have three house payments and four employees, but you don't know how to manage your really.

Yeah.

Sounds about right.

Yeah, for sure.

I mean, there's childhood stuff that I blocked out that, you know, you don't really, you don't really want to go that far back in that deep, but I really believe that you have to just kind of, um,

Reveal all your secrets or at least to yourself and then be selective about things that you want to move forward in the conversation, but I found that

You know, I had this memory issue, too.

So I always thought like I was heading for some early diagnosis or something because I have a very bad brain, like my memory.

So it was something that I was curious about before I even started writing the book.

Like, why is my brain like this and why can't I remember huge chunks of my life?

Yeah.

I experienced that too.

I have to have a picture.

If I see a picture, I'm like, oh, that's, I kind of see that moment that that photo was taken in, but I don't really have anything around it.

So always just really curious about like why my brain is dialed in that way.

I don't remember well.

I think I didn't.

I think I was when I was closer to it, it was fresher.