Sadia Khan

So really attractive men will focus on who they have a lot in common with, who treats them well, and just who they can raise a family with.

That's what attractive men who grew up attractive their whole life will think.

A bit like Tony Robbins.

You'll see his wife, perfect kind of match for him.

Like, it makes sense.

You look at them and it makes sense.

Or like Lewis Howes, all these people, you can tell that they've chosen women that make sense for them.

Men who never grew up... Who are age-appropriate, who are like, yeah... Cognitively appropriate, all of those things.

Appropriate.

The main thing is they know that they can have children with that woman, and if that child turned out like the woman, they'd be over the moon.

She's got great characteristics.

What men who grew up without looks did is that, firstly, they put women's appearance on a pedestal because they could never access it.

So they think beautiful women are the key to happiness because they never got access to it.

The other thing that happens with those men is when they do finally get with a beautiful woman, they become extremely submissive.

They have no boundaries left whatsoever.

They're just so proud of themselves that they got her that they don't care how she treats them in private, as long as publicly they look like they've got her.

So it's really about their sexual confidence, especially when they're growing up, and also their sexual confidence in general.

And I know I don't like to use the term, but you know, that big D energy or whatever it is, men with small D energy will need a woman to make them look like a man.

Men with big dick energy will, they are the man themselves.

The woman is just an accessory.