Sadia Khan

Exactly.

difficult the only people that tend to have success are people who have both come out of long-term relationships they tend to have success because those people are again they're in the habit of relationship yeah and they are in the habit of loving somebody they're also in the habit of checking on somebody and they're also in the habit of monogamy they don't get the same joy of having four or five dates in a week would they get more joy of

knowing one person's body really well, one person really well, and connecting with that one person a lot.

So it works out best when two people have kind of been in long-term relationships and they're kind of freshly single.

Some men will be like, oh, I need more time.

But the ones that are actually a bit more mature, they realize, what is time?

You're just wasting it.

That's all it is.

And those people tend to work better.

If you're a person in those relationship habits, but you're talking to somebody who's not in relationship habits, it will be like pulling teeth a little bit.

Yeah, on both ends.

Yeah.

It will be a little bit like pulling teeth.

So try it.

If they've been single for a really long time, particularly men, it's a bit trickier.

It's not impossible.

It's just a bit trickier.

No, no.

They're forever.

And the weird thing, another thing I talk about in the book is people think that the more women a man sleeps with, the better he is in bed.