Sadia Khan

So sometimes I'll see people making videos about me and they're like, Sadia Khan did this video and I know she's talking about me.

And I'm like, why would I be talking about what's it?

But they centered my opinion so much that they think I center them.

So they take it so personal.

Whereas I'm so capable of not personalizing information, good or bad.

But the problem is with non-truth seekers who are sensitive, they personalize something that could be said by a complete stranger.

They personalize it really quickly.

I know.

And that's where hypersensitivity is super unattractive, both in men and women.

Yes.

Hypersensitivity is a real killer in relationships because people who are hypersensitive tend to gravitate towards each other.

They end up with each other.

And the other thing is they can't be honest with each other.

So I'll meet men who haven't touched their wives in years and they'll say, she's gained so much weight, I'm not attracted to her anymore.

And I was like, why don't you tell her so that you can work?

Oh, she will react so badly.

So I was like, so you're just going to have this dead marriage and both of you are going to stick to it because you're both too sensitive to have that conversation?

They're like, yeah.

So they have this hypersensitivity that makes honesty impossible in relationships.

It makes honesty and intimacy impossible.