Sam Claflin

Or my looking at my kids and saying, you know, I'm loved.

That's that's enough.

I don't know why what Bianca from I'm immediately thinking Bianca for Patsy Palmer.

Yeah.

But it doesn't matter what someone from across the world who I've never met thinks about me because I feel bad about myself.

So it was more about not seeking that kind of reassurance and that attention and that love from external places and trying to rectify my relationship with myself.

Yeah.

No, but it should be because we're the only relationship that will last forever.

Everything we're doing is meant to be the way that we're doing it.

I think, and again, this is a lesson I'm trying to get through to my kids, is that it's okay to make mistakes.

And yeah, fine, I might be disappointed in something you've done, but it's okay as long as you learn from this mistake.

Yeah, yeah.

And fine, you might make the same mistake twice, but please don't make it third time.

I think it's just sort of embracing the learning and the education.

And you said it yourself.

So we never really stop learning.

We'll always be trying to perfect everything.

well, hopefully people should be trying to perfect themselves or better themselves or grow to evolve.

And I think, again, I've always been a perfectionist and I've always found myself sort of polishing little things and actually rather than going, wait, I feel like there's a deep rootage problem, there's a bigger problem that I've just been kind of glazing over or just completely pushed under the rug.

And sort of now I'm attacking those parts of myself.