Sarah Bays
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910 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Jun 2026
last heard 26 Jun
Sarah Bays’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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That doesn't mean that there aren't beautiful experiences that you have in committed long-term relationships, but it's just different.
It works on different parts of the nervous system and the brain.
Yeah, I love that.
It's like our brains were connected because I'm like, that was exactly the next part I felt we needed to talk about, you know, yeah, the self-worth and the self-esteem thing.
So I think on both parties, right?
So let's say, let's say the people who are really happy with the situationship in terms of
well, let's put it this way.
There's two types of happy with being in a situationship.
One where it really is actually meeting my needs and it's legitimately where I'm at in life and it's great.
And then there's another happy with it, which is more like this is just my comfort space.
So a situationship is comfortable.
That doesn't mean it's right for me and what I need, but it means that I don't have to be super vulnerable.
I don't have to fear being hurt.
I don't have to fear being consumed by someone and having to give everything to them and that might be too much.
Yeah.
So if we're thinking about those people where, yeah, on the surface, situationships really suit them.
Yeah.
It's not really...
that it suits them.
It's more that I'm scared that if I allow more of myself to be seen or to be given to someone that I then could get hurt.
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