Sarah Carey

in April, Chris, and I went to one of the cathedrals, St.

Matthew's.

I popped down to Mass because, you know, a good Catholic in a different city, the first thing you do is check out the Mass and see what's going on.

And I was amazed.

In Ireland, when you go to Mass, like it's all very old people and maybe you might get an immigrant family, but really it's mostly old people.

In St.

Matthew's that morning,

I saw one or two gray heads around me.

Everybody else was, I would say, definitely under 50.

Lots of people under 35.

And most of them seemed to be alone.

They weren't with families.

They were obviously individual people who were just coming, looking for something.

And I thought that was very interesting.

But I want to go back to something else.

You know, you said you lost your daughter, and I'm so sorry about that.

Have there been differences...

in how you reacted then and now, or has the experience of that kind of helped you in any way?

Or do you feel like, oh no, here I am again.

I have to go through this whole thing again.