Sarah Jakes Roberts

So I don't want to ask for any help.

So important is help that there are literally government assistant programs to help caretakers have a day out so that they can take care of themselves instead of taking care of other people.

And I also want to just challenge people to not think that help is limited to certain income brackets, that there's often community support and there are often programs that exist to help people of all income spectrums to be able to get help and support that they need.

You know, Emma, I tell my husband all the time, I'm so submissive.

I'm so submissive.

I say that because he is wrestling with me.

If you have to tell him, I feel like it might not be true.

Emma, you know what?

I am blown away by how submissive I am.

It really is.

You know, and he giggles.

I'm not sure what the joke is.

It's hard, especially like, I'm going to talk to you like I would talk to like one of my homegirls, right?

When you have had somebody play in your face and play with your time and play with your body and your mind, the last thing you're going to do is let somebody get over on you again.

Let me just, let me just lay down and see what happens next time.

Absolutely not.

Right.

And so I think I got married.

I was like, I love him, but like, I'm never going to let anybody play in my face again.

But what I realized is like having someone reflect your face is not the same as someone playing in your face.