Saskia

The biggest mind game of all?

NLP might actually work.

This is wild.

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Saskia was ready to give up on dating when one profile caught her eye.

Mike looked gentle.

He was a girl dad with a kind smile and kind eyes.

So I think I waved, winked, whatever you do, and he responded back, and then we started communicating, and he asked for a date pretty quickly.

The first date was casual.

They met at a brewery.

And we were going to have a couple drinks at the bar.

But that night, the bar was packed.

So they sat us at the most uncomfortable, awkward, twosome spot in the restaurant.

Immediately, one thing was clear.

He was not the type of person that I usually go for at all.

He was a little bit nerdy.

He had a glass of wine and he was like stirring his wine, which I thought was weird.

He talked a lot about his job and things like that.

Just wasn't as jokey as I'm used to.

Saskia was used to guys who would crush a few beers in the first hour.