Shane Parrish

And I posted that publicly.

Yeah.

Brave of you.

And I remember just being petrified.

But I was like,

People only see success.

Like so much of what people see is like, oh, the book's doing well, the podcast is doing well, the newsletter is doing well.

Like, oh, Shane must be.

And I remember like that was a hard few days for me after that.

Well, that's what happened.

I've rarely been texted or contacted so much about the post that I was about that.

And it wasn't sort of like I was worried people would think I'm fishing for sympathy or, but it was more like, oh my God, this thing happened to me last week too.

I totally bombed this.

And then all of a sudden people didn't feel alone anymore.

What can people learn from the Vanderbilts?

He wrote a book on that, didn't he?

How does wealth affect your relationship with your spouse?

Yeah, that's a good place to be.

What can you learn about someone from how they spend their money?

I look at the people who do that and to use the yellow Ferrari example and-