Sharam Namdarian
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278 appearances
3 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2020
last heard Dec 2020
Sharam Namdarian’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Then you can go online, meet people much further away, but in more niche communities.
So you can actually own what you want and be like, hey, I'm looking for friends with benefits, or hey, I'm looking for a long term thing, or hey, I'm just looking for some validation, or hey, I'm just looking to expand my circle.
Therefore, then you're sort of showing yourself, because I really care about like helping people long term, right?
So you show yourself.
that it's okay, like you've gone done the middle bit, like you've done like the really close thing, then you've done like the long term thing, like the long distance thing.
And it sort of opens it up at an emotional level.
You're I find people are more capable of accepting relationships if they're like in is somewhere in between.
And they end up finding something that's perfect for them.
I would consider, for example, the concept of bouncing.
If you've never heard of that before, it's the idea that to create familiarity on a date, multiple experiences should be had.
So rather than just sitting in one bar having some drinks, you could decide after a few times, like, okay, after a couple of drinks, we go to another bar.
Like having a few places in mind where you could bounce between if the date goes well.
And that therefore when you look back at a date, it's not just you
You just connecting or you two connecting in one place.
It's multiple experiences.
I've even tested this to the point where you could even bounce around the same bar.
And that does the same effect because you're still experiencing each other in a whole different light.
Uh one thing about creating familiarity, another thing just being ab asking for help.
Being able to ask for help because then someone feels like, oh, you're opening up to me and they feel invested.
But that's the thing.
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