Shauna Lee Janko

Sometimes it's hard for a man's ears to be open to a woman telling him how his mindset should be.

Yeah.

Yeah, this is how you need to think.

And obviously, you know, I'm,

there's very many loving ways to pour into somebody doesn't mean it has to be harsh but i just think that you know men and women are different and they are emotionally different and they deal with situations differently and i think that that's a hard dynamic to like i think it's very few you know where the the woman is taking charge and kind of like telling you how you should be leading your life you know yeah i don't know if that's how people are gonna feel about that but

Oh, 1 million percent.

I think that we would be in so much trouble.

The amount of peace that I have comes from knowing that regardless of what happens here, you're going to have to answer to him.

Well, yeah.

No, I'm so glad you brought that up.

That was a pivotal thing that I remember you telling me.

That was a pivotal thing that I would keep in my mind.

Like, okay, well, yeah, he's right.

Like, if he treats me poorly or if I lose him, like, then good.

Like, then God didn't want him in my life.

Then I don't want that in my life.

And so that was a really... I think that's something that not a lot of men would be comfortable in saying because they don't want to... For you to say, like...

That's it's so humble of you to be able to say like, hey, if I treat you poorly, like don't be worried about losing me because God's going to give you something better.

Right.

Like saying that there's going to be there's something better than your own self.