Sheleana Aiyana

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The School of Greatness · Why the Wrong Person Feels Like Home | Sheleana Aiyana · 26 Jun 2026 podcast

There's a lot of chaos and us versus them and people becoming enemies in the end.

And isn't it strange that we go out into the world looking for somebody to share love with and then more often than not we just hurt each other repeatedly and then we blame each other and then we go off and try to find somebody new and we just keep repeating the cycle.

That's not love.

That's not healthy love.

That's just wounds repeating the cycle.

And so what we have to realize is that often we are actually in relationship with a projection of the person who hurt us that we didn't heal with.

For me, it was always my mom, right?

Even with my past marriage that I talked about, you know, that projection for me was my mom.

So I was projecting all of my anger, all of my disgust, all of my sadness and my hurt

Onto this person that I was in relationship with and he, me.

And so on an unconscious level, we didn't have trust.

We didn't have safety.

And we were on opposite teams because we were punishing each other for the ways that we had been hurt.

Well, there were obviously things that we were both doing that were out of alignment, but the ability to recognize why we were doing those things wasn't there.

We all do things when we're reacting from a past wound, but it's coming from somewhere, and it's often that...

past shadow figure, that person in the unconscious mind that represents the mom or the dad or the caregiver who didn't show up for us and didn't provide the security and the love and the sense of self.

And so we have to go back and do that repair work and then grow up

we have to mature.

And recognize in those moments when that inner child, that wounded, scared child is coming to the front and center.

And be able to access our inner mother or inner father.

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