Sheleana Aiyana

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The School of Greatness · Why the Wrong Person Feels Like Home | Sheleana Aiyana · 26 Jun 2026 podcast

And it was stunning to see that I also fit the exact template of his childhood where I was critical of him.

He had a critical mom or something.

And he had a critical parent who he didn't feel seen and appreciated by.

And that was the thing that I would do and sadly sometimes still do.

You know, if I'm not being my best self, I'll get critical.

And so we fit these exact templates of each other's parents.

But if we're aware of it, then we can also say, what is that thing that you really needed?

What is that thing that you really needed to feel loved?

And then we do that thing every single day.

And so we're healing each other's wounds, healing each other's child selves by essentially reparenting our partner's inner child.

And he's reparenting mine.

Really?

And we're reparenting ourselves as well.

No, of course not.

Yeah, because, you know, there's this, especially in the conscious relationship realm, we hear a lot of this, these memes and this kind of rhetoric that we should be ultra independent.

And it's not said that way, but it's like you're responsible for your own emotions.

Nobody can make you feel anything.

and you're only responsible for you and them for them and it's not your partner's job to heal you and while that's true that it's not your partner's job to heal you when you enter into a partnership you become each other's allies and you both bring wounds to the table

And it actually is a gift to your partner to say, hey, what's something that I could do to nurture and nourish your inner child?

And here's what you could do to nurture and nourish mine.

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