Sheleana Aiyana

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666 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Jun 2026 last heard 26 Jun

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The School of Greatness · Why the Wrong Person Feels Like Home | Sheleana Aiyana · 26 Jun 2026 podcast

And that's a gift that we give.

And it's not about expecting it or demanding it.

But if we truly want to heal in relationship, then we actually do take on each other's baggage as a team.

And that's not something that a lot of people talk about these days, because we're in this

far swing to the other end of the pendulum because we've gone from these like very enmeshed relationships now we want to go to this total ultra independence but somewhere in the middle lies the beauty of doing the dance together and saying you know what I'm your ally in healing I'm going to be your partner in healing how can I love you better here's how you can love me better and let's do this thing

We're looking for a resolution.

In the back of our minds, we might not even be aware of it, but we're looking for a resolution to that thing that happened or to that story that said you're not lovable or that story that said you have to fight to earn love.

And so somewhere in our minds, we're looking to prove that story true or we're looking to complete the process.

And so we look for somebody who matches the template, like we just talked about, so that we can perhaps do that work.

And typically it hasn't worked out because what we don't realize is that our partner is doing that exact same thing.

But with the self-awareness and the willingness piece, if we're both aware and we're like, okay, we both do have some stuff to work on here.

Here's what I've got to work on.

Here's what you want to work on.

Do you want to do this together with that frame?

Then we really can get on the same track together and team up and do that healing work.

Otherwise, it just does repeat endlessly.

And it's easy to just blame the other person.

Well, there's something wrong with you.

I'm just going to get rid of you and go and find my soulmate.

Yeah.

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