Sonja Lyubomirsky
speaker
1,409 appearances
3 recordings
3 series
first heard Feb 2026
last heard 25 Jun
Sonja Lyubomirsky’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Yes.
There's a great line from a famous screenwriter who said, if you want to write a character that no one connects with, make them perfect.
So we actually don't want perfection because it's not human, it's not interesting, it's not complex.
Okay, a couple of things.
Well, it was beautiful that he could go underneath what her fear was not just she's afraid of, you know, doing this flip, but she's afraid that if she fails it, maybe her dad won't love her, which is really beautiful.
Like he gets under the fear.
And I do have one critique.
That was beautiful, obviously, what he said.
But I do have one critique of this death.
And it is that, I'm not a therapist.
What therapists say is that you want to first validate what she says.
She kept saying, I'm scared.
And he's like, no, you're not scared.
And I guess what you're supposed to do is kind of not supposed to do, right?
Ideally, you want to kind of validate, like, I understand you feel scared right now or something like that.
And then go and talk about it and give the speech that you get.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
First validate, yeah.
It's so interesting.
So one thing we talk about, let's say you're sharing more of yourself because you want to feel more loved.
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