Stella Mickunaite

And I was very thankful that I had that inner strength to actually stand on my own two feet and actually openly communicate that because otherwise you don't know what's going to happen.

Long story short, home visits and, you know, the very infamous he's 70% and I'm 100% and, you know, la, la, la.

And yeah, I remember we were, you know, they asked us to sit down and film a conversation and I just stood up and left.

I was like, I can't do this.

I'm too emotional and I'm too, you know, I needed a little bit of,

time and space and all of that.

You know how I see it?

The person who is meant for me will understand what I had to go through to be here.

So the person who is meant for me will never interfere with that and he will see the hard work that had to go into it.

It was like post-building when we did like a little, after the home visits, we did a restaurant session where I was wearing these orange earrings.

And after that conversation,

uh, he, I finished my voxie.

He finished his voxie and he came out to me and he said, I realized what it is and why I was like giving this off vibe because I was like, I'm feeling the off vibe.

And he's like, nah, everything's fine.

And I'm like, I know it's not like, I know in my gut, I know it's not anyway.

So he finished the chat and he came in and he said like, I know what it is.

I, I, I was scared to openly, you know,

express things my doubts whatever and as soon as we had this conversation everything kind of was like so we got into you know the next round of after the home visits even though as hard as it was for us you know navigating that 70 30 percent is he moving is he not moving is he sure about it he's not sure about me that conversation kind of like sealed the deal for us

And that's when the planning started.

We finished.