Stephen Andrew

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The Hook Up · Do you have a 'type'? · 24 Jan 2017 podcast

I mean it's a fine thing to do in the world.

But whether that in fact spills over

And she starts to care and even over care for people whose self esteem might be a bit shot.

And so again, you don't have this um sense of equality in the relationship.

There's a big one, that's Kate the nurse looking after the little one, the the boy who's

whose self esteem has has been hurt or shot.

Well yes.

I mean her patients would get well and leave the hospital and her boyfriends get well and leave her and go back to their exes and

I'd be looking at what uh what she was contributing to the to nurture that sort of behaviour.

some of the possible reasons, Veronica.

Um I'm thinking of that anxious avoidant um attachment type.

which um often are prone to extreme distress.

They can be hard to to comfort when they're upset and they really sometimes want to punish you as well for any distance that they might feel.

So they kind of prepare themselves for all of that by saying, I'm gonna stay well clear, I'm gonna stand well back.

and not have the connection that uh you might want to have with them.

They're often cool, they're often calm, the the strong silent type as we say.

But when you scratch away at the surface there's not much there except fear.

And um you'll be chasing them and chasing them and they'll be doing exactly the opposite.

They'll be running away and

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