Stephen Andrew
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600 appearances
6 recordings
1 series
first heard Jan 2017
last heard Aug 2019
Stephen Andrew’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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discovering and that eternal fascination with our own faces with someone who looks just like us.
We can stare at them across the table at dinner and
Um we don't have to spend all that much time in front of the mirror as a result.
Well, I mean narcissism is is you know, as a pathology, I think there's a great curiosity in for most of us how we look and we spend a lot of time
Um, dressing up, putting on makeup, checking out, looking at fashion, even whether it's conscious or unconscious.
Um
It's important to us and it's important to us of course too in terms of attracting going back to relationships again, attracting ma mates.
And so it all sort of blends in and rolls in together and it it makes sense I think to me.
It's a little scary if we're talking of i identical twins or getting plastic surgery to to look like my partner.
That's mm but
Yeah.
Hannah, you're right, there is a sort of a a word of warning here or a take here from a a man called David Data who did a lot of work on sexuality and what he called sexual polarity.
And in in plain terms, if you've got
If you've got two matches together and you've got two strikers together, you're not going to get a spark.
You need the match and you need the striker.
You need to have some degree of difference.
Um and it can be on on any sort of level, but that difference needs to be there.
Or you can just find yourself as partners who are really good friends, who really like each other and who wouldn't.
But that sexual drive, that sexual spark, that difference.
isn't there if if you're too close in terms of identity, if you're too close perhaps in terms of energy, and possibly even looks, I'm not sure.
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