Steve Smith
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
What's really going on?
And because you could be triggered or somebody can do something unintentionally that reminds you of another situation.
And you don't even know it.
And then they cross hairs.
Well, one, every situation is different.
And the only thing that you know is rage, disappointment, anger, all that stuff.
And here's the thing that I do believe.
So for me, man, as I've really started to take the approach, I'm going to wait.
When you're a tough critic on your teammates, that can wear them down.
So I would say a lot of my teammates who love me,
Sometimes I will wait a long time.
Also, when they played with me, were annoyed by me, were irritated because of doing that.
There's other times where if I receive an email that I don't really, I'm not liking the vibe of the email.
And it wears on people, right?
When they say, you know, you get more bees with honey, right?
So I already know I can't respond immediately.
I got to let a couple of days go by and think about a few times.
But man, ultimately, you know, the best way you can do it is start to really analyze yourself and say, okay, you know, why am I here?
If I'm thinking about it like a couple hours later, I'm still like irritated.