Tanya Coons
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3,654 appearances
23 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2016
last heard Aug 2022
Tanya Coons’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Or if we're gonna discuss where we're going for dinner for three hours, then we might as well not go.
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That sort of stuff.
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And so yeah, it it is a a little bit about learning apart learn learning how to communicate in a way that might get you to decisions faster and that's also respectful of your relationship.
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So that you solve your conflicts because there will be conflict.
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Um, rather than avoiding the conflict because that's I think also people build up and explode when they're sitting on things, sitting on things, sitting on things, and then one day
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It's just like I can't hold it in anymore.
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Yeah.
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And then there's this fight that's such a shock to the other person who's not used to
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you know, one ex somebody exploding.
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I'm always a little suspicious of people who say they don't fight.
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Pardon me.
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Um, because I'm wondering, are you not saying what you need to say?
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and to agree with people all of the time.
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So it's like what well what are you sitting on or what are you what are you prepared to swallow?
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Sometimes people can be very passive and, you know, do everything that their partner wants.
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But uh at what cost?
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You know, sometimes those are the people that just get up one day and walk out the door without saying a word and it's a big surprise.
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But they've had a lot of time thinking about things.
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They just haven't been able to speak about it.
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Yep, that's not very constructive fighting at all.
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