Tanya Coons

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3,654 appearances 23 recordings 1 series first heard Feb 2016 last heard Aug 2022

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The Hook Up · Fighting the good fight · 20 May 2019 podcast

It's just that's who I am. matched

Yeah, it's take taking taking a second, uh surely. matched

But I think people are so defensive and we learn that. matched

You can be defensive in response to other people or you can bring defensiveness into matched

your relationship by the way that you are. matched

So it's a good idea to have a look at yourself and be like, am I open? matched

Am I being curious about the other person? matched

So these arguments where somebody needs to be right, I wonder what's in it for them. matched

I wonder why why this is so important for them. matched

So you can ask, you know, this this feels like it's really close to your heart. matched

Help me understand why you're getting so upset now. matched

Mm. matched

You know, things like that. matched

So that they're not like, Why do you think like that? matched

Which feels really judgy. matched

It's more like, I really want to try and understand you. matched

I don't, but if you could maybe help me understand why this is particularly important or why you're finding this really upsetting that I don't like mushrooms or whatever it is. matched

Um, we might get a little bit further into it. matched

Yeah, it does. matched

Thank you. matched

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