Tanya Coons
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3,654 appearances
23 recordings
1 series
first heard Feb 2016
last heard Aug 2022
Tanya Coons’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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Um with great difficulty.
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Some people just aren't good at talking about feelings.
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So I guess again it's the curiosity like, hey, I notice you've gone really quiet, you know.
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Is everything okay?
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Or I'm noticing that you go quiet whenever we talk about this.
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Is this something that's really hard?
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Or does that bring something else up for you?
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You know, that that type of thing. 'Cause some people go quiet because it's a great st strategy.
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It's like, you know what, I don't want to talk about this, so I'm gonna go quiet.
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Mm.
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And then we don't have to talk about it 'cause my partner's gonna get so frustrated, they're gonna stop bugging me about the housework and go and do it anyway, right?
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So it could just be, um, when you're ready, I'd I'd I really need to tell you how I feel here.
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It's not about me wanting to yell at you, it's about actually how I am feeling.
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And 'cause when you use I feel language, people tend to listen to you more than when you use you always and
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You never.
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Mm.
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So we're making ourselves vulnerable and people pay attention to that.
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thinking, you know?
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Well, my question for the how the final word person is, how's that working out for ya?
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You know?
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