Tara Mohr

Still, it is like I can, we're still in the stereotype, right?

There's on the one hand ambition over here, but it comes at these costs of how I am relationally and personally, or there's the nice person, which is exactly that double bind.

So that is like part of this transition team is you're actually, you embody both.

And that's very impactful for people to absorb, like at a, at a, almost at a cellular level to be like, oh, there it is.

Both, both together.

Let's do it.

Buy both books.

So great.

Yeah.

Well, I think, you know, this is very much what we were also just talking about before in terms of the good student mentality.

So we could say the good girl mentality, the employee mentality, and the good student mentality.

I'm like, it's made it.

Those are kind of all very similar, right?

In that my job is adapting to the authority figure, not being the authority figure.

Yes.

nor is my job influencing authority.

I'm going to be a shapeshifter, which a lot of us learn in school.

This teacher wants the paper in this font.

This teacher wants the paper in that font.

Like down to the very detail, this teacher likes it if you argue your point this way.