Tazmin Suleman
speaker
211 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Sep 2024
last heard Sep 2024
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You don't know that.
Don't ask the question and answer it yourself.
I'm going for that interview, but they're not really going to like me because of X, Y, and Z. You don't know that.
Give yourself the best possible shot.
Challenge yourself.
Again, if you're saying, I don't know how to do that.
Well, if you were in a court of law and you stood up in front of the judge and said, I don't think I'm going to get that job because X, Y,
And if the judge said, well, do you have any evidence to support that?
If you don't, then why are you even running with
So, you know, we have a whole bank of negative chatter in our heads.
And part of the self-awareness is listening to what you are saying to yourself.
So one of the exercises I give my clients is they have like an audit, a one-week audit, where every hour they have to stop doing what they're doing and write down what they were thinking at the time, just to get an understanding and a capture what's going on in their heads.
But
You know, there is a school of thought where if you run around the park screaming, I am awesome, that's going to solve all your problems.
It'll work for some people.
It won't work for others because we will dismiss it as that's rubbish.
So if you are trying something brand new and you're saying to yourself, I can't do this, and you think by saying to yourself, I am awesome at this,
It's going to fix it.
Sometimes it won't.
But what you can do is say things like, I'm getting better at this every day, or I'm solution focused.
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