Terri (Terry) Cole

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188 appearances 1 recordings 1 series first heard Aug 2026 last heard 8 Aug

Terri (Terry) Cole’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.

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But do you know what I'm saying?

Being in a long-term relationship requires that sometimes we don't get our preferences met enough.

Because we're in a collaborative, mutual relationship.

And this morning, she needed you to sleep less and jump her car.

Correct?

So it's not a bad boundary that you did that.

You're a good husband for doing that.

Well, here's the thing.

It's a porous boundary if poor planning on the part of the other person continually constitutes an emergency for you, right?

Like if you say, my working hours today are this, what might be helpful that if you have a door, put a sign on the door.

My husband knows.

He just came to the back door where I am, and there's a sign on there that's like, do not enter, right?

because I'm recording and I don't want it to be loud or whatever.

And he's like, okay.

And he has a studio where he works.

But maybe if you put a thing on there and then you stick to it, you have to stick to it though, right?

Because boundaries that are not enforced.

And of course, if your 11 year old comes and is bleeding, you're not gonna enforce that boundary in that moment.

They're allowed to come in no matter what is going on if there's an actual emergency.

But them not planning ahead doesn't have to be.

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