Terri (Terry) Cole
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188 appearances
1 recordings
1 series
first heard Aug 2026
last heard 8 Aug
Terri (Terry) Cole’s voice in public audio — every appearance, attributed to the second.
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As humans, we like things to stay the same.
It just goes all the way back to safety and security.
So part of it is when you really want to become masterful at boundaries, you have to realize it's a process.
It's going to take a minute.
Yes, someone's going to notice.
And if they say, well, what is this?
Why are you not letting me call you at two in the morning when I have an emergency?
If you have a friend who does that often, let's just say, you can say, I'm actually trying to take better care of myself.
So I'm turning my phone off at 10 so I can sleep.
It's not personal to you.
It's what I need to do to be healthier for me.
So you mean I can't call you at two in the morning?
I mean, you can.
and I'll get that message in the morning, and I'll call you back when I can.
Yes, that is accurate, because it takes repetition.
For people to do a new dance, you don't just show them the steps once and you may have another conversation and they may say, you know, I feel really hurt that I can't call you at two in the morning.
And you can say, I see that.
I understand that.
I'm sorry about that.
And I still need to turn my phone off at 10.
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