Terry Real
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
We have to earn worthiness.
And I like to say, guys, leave their wives—I'll be hetero for a moment—guys, leave their wives and kids.
Go fly off into the sun.
to be worthy of love.
And meanwhile, their wives and kids are saying, where the hell is dad?
What's going on here?
Well, I'm off trying to win your love.
Well, sit down and play Monopoly with us for Christ's sake.
You don't have to do that.
It's like, it's a bill of goods.
It's a scam that we've all bought.
Just sit down and be still and be connected.
That's all you need to do.
But we don't, we're not taught that.
Well, good luck countering it.
How's that working?
Listen, this is a trap.
First of all, the thing is this.
The lack of self-esteem leads us guys to be unaccountable in our relationship.
When we're confronted with an imperfection,