Terry Real
π€ SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
It's me, too.
We get caught in the horrible delivery, and we react to the horrible delivery.
You know, come on.
It's not that bad.
Hey, you're talking horribleβ
A black belt and a relational guy, you duck under the horrible delivery.
I'm not saying it's not horrible, it is.
But you try and get to the point that the person's trying to make.
Why?
It's jiu-jitsu.
You duck under the horrible delivery.
You deal with their ouch.
And guess what happens?
They calm down.
You react to the horrible delivery.
That's exaggerated.
Bah, bah, bah.
And, well, you're off to the races.
But, oh, my God, what an enlightened man.
Your partner or your boss or your kid is saying, you're a shitty human being.