Terry Real
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
They think they're in to four in the morning.
15 minutes.
In that 15 minutes, I want you to be like a girlfriend.
There, that sucks.
Tell me more about it.
I want you to do empathically.
This is what it looks like.
We're passive in our relationships.
We let each other do what we do, and then we complain about it.
We can shape it.
More assertion up front, less resentment on the back end.
So roll up your sleeves and teach your guy what you want.
I don't want you to solve my problems.
I want you to do this instead.
As a favor to me, would you do it?
Not, I'm God's gift to relationship, this is what you need.
No, as a favor to me, would you do it?
And then three, once the guy starts to do it, encourage him, don't discourage him.
We all, too little, too late, you did half.
I tell women, celebrate the glass 14% full.