Tiffany Aliche
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first heard Dec 2024
last heard 13 Apr
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So all that I work toward is to just bring back to center, to enough. I don't need to collect any more... You know, I'm so happy my book made the New York Times bestsellers list. But honestly, like, what does that even mean? You know, we're here for a flash in the pan. And how will you spend that time? And I hope you spend it like on the things that mean the most. Connectedness, love, purpose.
And they use your money as one of the tools to help you achieve that life.
It sounds like he taught you something that he could not teach you when he was still here. So much, honestly. Like I look back and I'm just like, I mean, candidly, I said this with so many women who are looking for partnership. My husband never made over $60,000 a year. And yet the way he looked after like all of us, I mean, he called my parents more than I did, you know?
Like, he would, like, cut my nephew's hair. When he passed away, there was a little old lady down the street who I'd never met who knocked on my door and said, I heard the gentleman here passed away. And I said, yes. She said, you know, I'll really miss him. He used to rake my lawn. And I didn't even know that. But that's how he was, you know?
Sometimes I think that we think more money, like, means that we can do more. But he was testament that that's, you don't need, you can show up fully. So I just... Yeah. He just, I just, it's a lot. The loss is great, but not just mine. You know what I mean?
And so like, I'm just so blessed to have experienced that kind of love. I was loved so, so, so well that even without him being here, that love still resonates like through me and around me and the people that he touched. So just really fortunate.
Yeah. Because there's so much joy to be had, even if you don't have enough for your basic needs. Obviously, that's really hard. But for many people, that's actually not the case. That we are making ourselves sick and unhappy from a place of like, you actually have enough. And your kids are right here. They want to play with you. You actually have enough.
And your wife wants to watch a movie with you. Your parents want to see you. You actually have enough. And it's not going to be until they're gone that you're like, I wish I would have, you know? Yeah. And so like, I'm fortunate that I, something in me, I mean, I believe in a divine power. And a year and a half before Jarrell passed away, it was like this sense that came over me.
Like, you need to spend a lot of time with your husband. Like, he wasn't sick or anything like that. I just was like, because I just was working so much. I mean, my business had hit eight figures in a year. And I was like, oh, wow. And then somebody was like, yeah, I'm making a lot, but also it's taking a toll. And it was like, I think you need to slow down and like focus here.
And so I did till the last year and a half of our marriage went from good to great. And I'm so grateful that I listened to that inner thing that said Tiffany. So we had like Friday date nights. I didn't work on Fridays and I would stop working at five because he got off at five so we can hang out after work. I wasn't doing that before. I used to work. from like 7 to 10 every day regardless.
And so I look back at the time and I'm so grateful, you know, that like he always loved me well and I got to really love him well in that time, you know? And so there's not much I regret other than I just wish she was here, obviously. You know, but I think about our love. I think about all the things that we did together. That's beautiful. You know, so yeah, but it's just... Yeah. I'm sorry.
Why are you apologizing? No, because I just don't want to bring the energy down. You didn't.
Oh, my gosh. You ever see, like, what is that movie? Friday? No, what is it? Is it called Friday? No, it's the movie with Regina George. Oh, my God. I have, like, the worst, like, old lady memory. They're like, get in, loser. We're going to the mall. That's great. I can't remember. Of course, I would. Yes, but we're not going to the mall. Yes, yes. Because we're not spending money.
It's like, get in, loser. Yes, get in, loser. Yes.
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