Tina Payne Bryson
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848 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Mar 2020
last heard May 2020
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And sometimes I actually have to take care of them.
Um or in the disorganized that I mentioned.
Where the parent is the source of fear and and and can't be counted on at all.
And uh but yet the child wants that connection.
So there's this push and pull um disorganization there.
But rather what happens with secure attachment, the brain knows securely.
If I have a need, someone will show up for me and I am going to expect that other people show up for me.
So that means what we see is that they choose friends and significant partners.
who do help them feel safe, seen and soothed.
So they have healthier relationships.
They expect people to show up for them.
And if people don't, they're like, you're not a good friend.
You're not a good mate.
And then the best part, Debbie, is um and I know your son's getting, you know, older and getting closer to being an adult.
The best part about this is that
When we help our kids feel safe, seen and soothed, again, not perfectly, but enough, and their brain wires for that fourth S of security, they learn how to show up for themselves.
So they learn how to keep themselves safe and to see and understand and accept themselves.
and to be able to soothe themselves and then ultimately to provide secure attachment to other people, their significant others and their friends and their siblings and eventually their kids.
So this is really powerful and you know, we see this in terms of, you know, the the part of the brain that
is really responsible for all the social and emotional intelligence and mental health, that prefrontal cortex.
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