Tina Payne Bryson
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848 appearances
2 recordings
1 series
first heard Mar 2020
last heard May 2020
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Playing with my friends is dangerous.
Going to school is dangerous.
Going to the playground is scary.
Like all the things that are healthy and good and and typical for our lives.
So especially for young kids, I'm concerned that that repeated messaging
undermines that first S of safety.
So what we want to do is give our kids safety-based messaging to say we're not playing with friends for a little while.
We're taking a break from playing with friends so that we can be safe.
We wash our hands because it helps us be safe.
And we just really shift our language so that your child does not leave the pandemic with the mental model of the world is a scary, dangerous place.
But rather your ch your child leaves this pandemic with the mental model of my parent keeps me safe.
So when my parent then says it's safe to go be with friends, the kid's like, I rest assured knowing that my parent keeps me safe.
And if she says that's safe, I'm good.
So that's a really key one.
And then I'll do a little quick scene one just 'cause I know that's so it's so hard for us, is that your kids might be complaining a lot right now and fussing about things and
again, it can trigger that your spoiled, indulged, selfish kind of fear within us as parents.
So we might respond if your kid's like, I'm so tired of doing school on the computer or I'm tired of I'm so bored.
That we might respond with something like, You're so you know, you're so lucky you even have a house to be bored in, right?
Or you're lucky you even have friends.
Some kids don't even have any friends, or you're being so selfish, or whatever we w say in those moments.
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