Tina Payne Bryson

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848 appearances 2 recordings 1 series first heard Mar 2020 last heard May 2020

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These attachment relationships are part are are really fundamental to all of our relationships, this attachment.
But
I think for mi.
Knowing that I can number one, mess up all the time as long as I repair with my kids, that if I hold this in mind, no matter what's happening in the moment, that if I can help my kid feel safe, seen and soothed so that they get secure.
I can actually I'm actually building their brain in the most optimal ways every time that happens.
So I love the simplicity of it.
I love that it's um there's tons of room for being a crappy parent.
And I also love and and I think this has to get out there because I mean, honestly, there are many, many things, like all the things we write about in Whole Brain Child and No Drama Discipline and Yes Brain and
You know, all of the other kinds of content we produce
None of it matters as much as the parent showing up.
To me, it's just the most important thing.
And the research bears that out.
And then the last thing I'll say about why the message had to get out is that
The attachment research is s full of so much hope.
It's not the kind of thing where you read and you're like, Oh man, that kid screwed forever, like or I've damaged my kid forever.
Actually the opposite happens.
So the single best predictor for how well a parent is able to provide the four S or to provide secure attachment to their kid or to show up.
Is not whether or not they had parents who did that for them, which is thank God, because forty percent of us did not have secure attachment with our own caregivers.
А ви формов insecure attachment, which
can have really significant outcomes or more milder outcomes, depending on how you know what the situation was.
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