Tina Payne Bryson
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848 appearances
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first heard Mar 2020
last heard May 2020
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But that the best predictor for us being able to do that is not whether or not we had it, but rather that we have reflected on our own history, made sense of it.
and are able to kind of have a coherent narrative or have told the story about how our parents did or didn't show up for us.
And so there's hope for all of us that as we move toward that making sense process and reflecting on our own.
histories and our past and how it impacts our parenting now.
That we can always start making shifts, so it's never too late to do better.
It's never too late to start helping our kids.
feel more securely attached to us.
And as soon as we start to do that, our kids brains start changing right away.
So I love the hope in it too.
I I think it's really important as parents to have hope and encouragement 'cause it's so hard.
Yeah, I love what you're saying there, Debbie, because you know, I think I want to reframe that idea of feeling guilt as a parent because
We all do that and you know, as I have consumed the research and other people's important work over the years, you know, I've learned things and I think, Oh, damn, I wish I had known that or I had thought about that that way, you know, when my kids were younger.
And I I think what I wanna say all to all of us is when we feel that guilt and that regret or we feel bad about what we didn't know or what we did not what you know, what we didn't feel like we did well.
Is that that is actually an awesome, awesome experience.
It's not a fun feeling to have.
But think about this.
Debbie, if you went back and read your middle school diary.
And when you read it, you were like, this is awesome.
Like, what would that say about your evolution and development and growth as a human being, right?
I would be horrified, right?
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